Hi Tollison,
If you're interested in coding, it doesn't really matter which language you start with. As long as it's one of the mainstream languages, you should be fine. When starting as a developer it's important you understand coding in an abstract way. It's also important to know your priorities. Do you want to develop mostly frontend based websites and design them, or do you want to be an actual software engineer and create an entire software application.
If you're interested in software development I would suggest starting with either C# or Java (I prefer C#, Visual studio with Resharper IDE is awesome). Some good books/PDFs to start with are: Head First C# or Head First Java. These books are very easy to learn and explain you the basics of coding.
I've been told some people start with Python, which is ok I guess. I have zero experience with this which means I cant help you with this subject.
Say you want to focus more on the frontend aspect of developing and enjoy visually designing stuff, I would suggest picking up a language like Javascript(jQuery) or PHP (even though I seriously hate PHP).
Out of experience I think it's easier to start learning C# or Java.
Hope that helped you out a little bit.
Regards,
Runey