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Tollison

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Your personality!
« on: September 21, 2013, 06:30:35 am »
How do you act to your public and personal life?

I try to smile at everyone to boost everyones happiness including my own.  All friends I've acquired I was smiling.  Even on WC I would smile while typing to all of you when I was engaged in friendly conversation.  http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2012/07/study-forcing-a-smile-genuinely-decreases-stress/260513/

Other people have told me they purposely frown for sympathy of others, and others make an angry face to intimidate others.   

Also how do you act with yourself?  When you're playing a game do you get mad?  If so what for?  Think of the game like a math problem.  You can't solve it unless you learn how to so why not accept the humility that comes with defeat?


What's your take on how you act?



« Last Edit: September 21, 2013, 06:36:43 am by Tollison »

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Re: Your personality!
« Reply #1 on: September 21, 2013, 02:29:03 pm »
I do the same thing, I smile even when typing because for some reason I always think of something personally funny when I type to someone.
I.e. I'm typing this and I'm thinking 'hah now I'm posting in one of those Tolli topics, doh'. For that reason I'm pretty much permanently smiling at irony, sarcasm and my own thoughts.
Besides that, I sigh a lot because I find a lot of people very tiring, but I don't let that on much.
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« Reply #2 on: September 21, 2013, 04:56:10 pm »
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hah now I'm posting in one of those Tolli topics, doh
lol, this was good ^^

yeee theory is to not force anything, just express whatever feelings you have. walking around with a forced smile all day is called "the american smile", with their bleached teeth from hell. it's seethrough and makes you look freakens. it might make people percieve you as someone who wants to appear friendly tho (with emphasis on "wants to appear" :D), but I think most people have an easy time distinguishing a "genuine smile" from a "forced" one.

i prefer people who only bring genuine smiles. REAL SH1T!
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Re: Your personality!
« Reply #3 on: September 21, 2013, 07:28:22 pm »
Haha ^^

The point is to make the forced smile become the genuine one.  When you smile at someone it can cause them to smile too by social pressure, and smiling releases chemicals in the body to help them maintain the feeling of smiling.

Frowning and tension of the face in an angry fashion also spreads through the public like wildfire, and those expressions bring on negative emotions while smiling brings positive ones.

Do you disagree that people should smile to help others maintain positive emotions?  Positive emotions help others make better decisions in life.


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Re: Your personality!
« Reply #4 on: September 21, 2013, 08:43:33 pm »
Why don't you act by your emotions, that is what makes sense... If you feel happy, be happy. If you feel sad your attitude is going to be what? Sad.

Tollison

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Re: Your personality!
« Reply #5 on: September 21, 2013, 11:18:00 pm »
I act by my emotions.  I am happy when others are happy. 

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Re: Your personality!
« Reply #6 on: September 22, 2013, 01:29:44 am »
Why would you care about anyone but yourself? When the majority doesn't care about you.

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Re: Your personality!
« Reply #7 on: September 22, 2013, 12:58:37 pm »
It's called Altruism, it's a style of life. Best part of sex = when girl is having an orgasm, that's the hottest imo. It's the same thing, if you see that others are happy, or that you make others happy, that brings satisfaction to yourself. That's what I have anyways.
Altruism = 'Altruism or selflessness is the principle or practice of concern for the welfare of others.'
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« Reply #8 on: September 22, 2013, 01:21:21 pm »
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It's called Altruism, it's a style of life. Best part of sex = when girl is having an orgasm, that's the hottest imo. It's the same thing, if you see that others are happy, or that you make others happy, that brings satisfaction to yourself. That's what I have anyways.
Altruism = 'Altruism or selflessness is the principle or practice of concern for the welfare of others.'
isn't that selfishness though? when the best part about sex is based on what's hottest to you (same as everyone you don't consider altruistic), or when you love seeing others happy because it bring you satisfaction (same as everyone who gets satisfaction from seing people get annoyed/sad/hurt).

it just happens that these selfish acts of yours also bring joy to others (the consequenses could have been entirely different with the same motivation). the motivation is based on what brings you happiness/satisfaction first and foremost, which is the definition of selfish?

it's sort of like a rich man throwing out coins on the street cus he thinks the coins are annoying in his pocket, and a homeless man happens to pick the coins up later. selfish or altruistic?

i know shoop is gonna bring come disgusting comebacks on this topic from bnet experience :D waiting for it!
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« Reply #9 on: September 22, 2013, 02:45:29 pm »
It depends on the mindset you have. If you think you should do good for people, and coincidentally you also get satisfaction/gratitude/happiness from it, then it's altruism. If you do good with the main goal of getting that satisfaction then it's selfishness.
But yea, there's a very thin line between Altruism and Selfishness like that.
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Re: Your personality!
« Reply #10 on: September 22, 2013, 06:18:12 pm »
I do universal actions.  Therefore if anyone is ever offended it is our fault.  I am at fault for offending him and he is at fault for confronting me about a widely accepted sign of happiness.  For example I like to smile at people I don't even know and about 50% of the people return a smile back to me.  Most everyone start out as selfish liars.

Selfish lying for example: when you laugh at something that isn't funny to you but you force a laugh anyways to keep that friend a friend.  It happens all the time.  Everyone is shaping themselves to fit the wants of others to be accepted.  There isn't a natural smile.  It was learned.  I take this into account and make myself smile a lot, but I also choose on whether I react to what I believe in or not.  I try to be the most honest person out there at all times to avoid lying about things I don't agree with.

In turn it makes others want to be like me.  I laugh at funny things and I am funny.  I always tell the truth and the truth is valued highly in society even if individuals lie all the time. 
Altruism makes a very happy society.  If the woman gets off on watching the male orgasm and the male gets off on having one too then it's a win win situation^^.  Do you not get hot and bothered when a woman is showing great pleasure? :D
« Last Edit: September 22, 2013, 06:21:32 pm by Tollison »

 

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